Wishlist December 2014

Every time the Holidays roll around, my wishlist starts to extend longer than Stretch Armstrong’s limbs (oh boy, remember those toys?).

Alongside cool gadgets, auto equipment, alcohol, and other goodies, clothing usually sits atop of the list. Today, I share with you some of my wishes for December.

Leather / wool rifle coat

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Source: Theory

I don’t know what it is about wool coats with leather sleeves, but I’ve become a die hard fan. A bit on the trendy side, I know, but damn the combination looks good. I particularly like this Theory one above. It’s expensive, but I saw it on sale at Macy’s (yeah we have a legit Macy’s that carries Theory) for almost half off, and was about a millimeter away from pulling the trigger.

New Balance high tops

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Oh man, I am going to lobby hard to get these shoes under my Christmas tree this year. I’ve always been a fan of suede New Balances and these high tops are no exception, even though I think they’re a JCrew collab exclusive. The color scheme, streamlined silhouette, and material all look wonderful to me. They even look comfy to boot!

Alden scotch grain bluchers

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Whoo wee! What beauties. As many of you know, Alden is one of my favorite shoe brands in the world. One of the few remaining American shoemakers making quality product through the generations.

One thing you’ll notice is that these are not made of your normal calfskin leather. After looking at some Thom Browne samples the other day, I realized I really like the use of scotch grain leather on shoes, and they add a bit of pop to what would normally be a very conservative shoe design. The Unionmade ones on the link above are sold out, but I think JCrew sells something similar here.

GQ x GAP leather backpack

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It looks like GQ is partnering with GAP once again to deliver some really unique pieces, designed by some of the top designers, to the general public. The collection isn’t set to be out until December 15th, but GQ offered a sneak peak into some of their favorite pieces. I really like this backpack by En Noir. I felt like there was a time when leather backpacks were a bit gaudy, but that time is no more. This slim, simple, elegant design just works, and I’ll definitely take a look to verify quality when the collection comes out.

Anyhow, there’s my December wishlist. Even though I’m trying not to buy any clothing, I will certainly be looking out for ways to get some of these things come January. Hoping that sales roll around by then! Stay warm out there, fellas.

Essential Outerwear: The Leather Jacket

Finally, I’m starting the outerwear series I promised you all a couple weeks ago. First on the agenda… leather jackets.

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If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know that I’m a huge fan of leather jackets. What’s not to like? They protect you from the wind, feel great to the touch, and of course, make you look incredibly badass.

As a result, over time, leather jackets have basically become my favorite article of clothing. I’ll tell you though, the journey to get there was not easy. I don’t have the most forgiving body type, so leather jackets often looked weird on me. Sleeves would be too long, shoulders would fit awkwardly, and some reason, most jackets gave me the silhouette reminiscent of an NFL linebacker.

Also, the cost of real leather jackets were always prohibitive. If I finally found one that I liked, I usually needed to take a deep breath before looking at the price tag- mainly to prepare for shock. Usually every jacket extended well beyond the $1k mark.

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Over time though, I realized two things. First was that it’s not easy to find a leather jacket that fits well. This is largely due to the fact that leather jackets are not easy to alter, so the flexibility of customizing your jacket disappears. The second is that it is well worth it to spend the extra buck for a nice leather jacket, because it will last you for a lifetime.

After understanding these two concepts, I decided to first, be patient with shopping for a leather jacket. The investment would be substantial, so making the right decision was crucial. Second, I needed to suck it up and just be okay with paying the money, knowing that it would be hard to get a decent leather jacket without spending a bit more. Plus, they don’t really go out of style.

As a result, here are the two I ended up with:

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 Sunglasses: Ray Ban | Shirt: J.Crew | Jeans: Rag & Bone

Belt: Hugo Boss | Jacket (Black): Theory (similar)

Jacket (Brown): Levi’s Made & Crafted (similar)

So this is an outerwear series in preparation for winter. You may be asking why leather jackets are part of that list. Well, leather jackets are actually appropriate year-round, and winter is no exception. Especially in cities like San Francisco, leather jackets work great during the colder months, especially when paired with a scarf and sweater.

They do well against the wind as they’re not porous, they are great at insulation (depending on the type you get), and the style is not only appropriate, but encouraged during the fall and winter months.

Get one if you have the opportunity, you won’t regret it.

Photo Credit: Chris Eldredge

A proper hoodie

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Hoodie: Banana Republic (similar) | Shirt: Black Fleece | Tie: Theory

You may have noticed, but hoodies get a lot of flak in the menswear world these days. You’ll often see warnings saying “Throw away that old hoodie and upgrade to a v neck sweater or cardigan,” or  “You’ve graduated college, it’s time to let that hoodie go.”

In fact, that last quote is basically straight from a simpler woman post that I put up here several months ago, so I’ll admit, I’m guilty of being a contributor.

Nevertheless, I do want to clarify one thing, and pronounce to the world that this doesn’t mean that hoodies are bad and should never be worn. On the contrary, some of my favorite closet pieces are actually hoodies!

Just look at that woolen hoodie above (which I’ve awkwardly overdressed), it’s oddly one of my most complimented pieces.  I kid you not, literally every time I’ve worn that sweater out, someone has either asked me where I got it, or complimented me on it. It’s also incredibly comfortable, warm, and easy to wear. It’s a beautiful sweater, and is a bit more “serious” or “classy” than your average gray Rocky Balboa hoodie.

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The hoodies that I, as well as my other fellow menswear brethren, are warning you about are not these types of hoodies, but instead the oversized ones with logos and graphics plastered on the front. You know, the sports logo hoodie you got in college, or the heather gray one that looks like you’re off to the gym for a sweat session?

So the next time you see you an attractive hoodie on the racks at your local mall, you don’t need to dismiss it right away. Hoodies can look awesome, it’s just a matter of finding the right one.

Insta-recap #3

In case you aren’t following me on Instagram, I wanted to share some of my photos here on the blog. I still think I’m a relative newb when it comes to this stuff, but the good news is I’m getting better.

Maybe I’ll start asking random people whether I can take pictures of them for Simpler Man. San Francisco street style is pretty fascinating, and I bet I can capture some really interesting outfits. But then again, it is a little creepy to ask random people if I can take pictures of them with my phone. I guess we’ll have to see.

Anyhow, hope you enjoy:

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In case you haven’t heard of Loro Piana, this company makes some of the most beautiful and luxurious fabrics known to man. Each piece felt like butter, no joke.

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My Redwing Beckman boots. They’re damn workhorses.

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This is an Isaia sport coat. $3k was it? One day…

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My favorite outfit combination for denim jackets.

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I wish I had more opportunities to wear these gloves and this storm coat last winter. Damn you San Francisco! Either way, I love Ralph Lauren Black Label.

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Rag & Bone cardigan and Ovadia & Sons tie. Some pattern contrast going on here.

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Good God, I love red & black combos. Black Fleece shirt, Theory jacket.

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These are brown burnished brogue balmorals by big, bad, baller shoe company Santoni.

Great, so there you go for my insta-recap #3. If you have Instagram, follow me @simplerman. My goal is to ultimately be halfway decent at bringing you some awesome menswear photos. Am I there yet? Probably not, but I’ll get there, I promise.

What am I wearing 3.24.13

Haven’t done a “what am I wearing” post in over a month, so I thought I’d snap some quick photos today in light of the beautiful weather.

Today, I wore a fairly interesting sweater that I haven’t worn in months. It’s by Burberry, and I got it on clearance a while back. Back then, I thought since it was 100% cashmere, made by Burberry, an amazing color, and on massive sale, why not?

Turns out I couldn’t get used to the weird neck shape, since it skirted the line awkwardly between V neck and shawl collar. Thus, the sweater ended up taking a back seat behind my normal shawl collar cardigans and V neck sweaters.

However, taking it out from the back of my closet, I realized it really didn’t look that bad. In fact, the design was kind of refreshing, since it’s not as cookie-cutter as my other knits. I paired the sweater with some dark tan chinos, a lightly patterned white shirt, and brown leather boots. Check it out:

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Sunglasses: Oliver Peoples | Shirt: Theory | Sweater: Burberry

Belt: Perry Ellis | Chinos: Dockers | Watch: Timex | Shoes: Allen Edmonds

I have to say, the feel of cashmere on the skin is pure pleasure. If you don’t already have a 100% cashmere sweater, I would highly suggest getting one. Looks and feels like a million bucks.

Alright fellas. Till next time.

Signature style: the suit

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Several weeks ago, I launched a series called Signature Style, where the goal was to showcase some very particular looks that might help you discover, or at least think about, your own signature style. The first two posts in the series covered some very distinct looks. The first being the Thom Browne look, or as I coined it, American Schoolboy Prep, and the second being a more flamboyant one called Dandy Dapper.

Well today, I’m going to tone it way down, and introduce a style you’re all probably familiar with. An outfit that will never get old, and will always remain acceptable: the formal suit.

We all probably know at least one individual who dons this signature style. The buddy who goes straight to his suit when an occasion isn’t purely casual. Think Joseph Gordon-Levitt, or Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother (yeah, yeah, I know he’s just a character).

Here’s my friend Joe in what I would consider one of the quintessential menswear looks of all time: the white shirt, brown shoes, plain navy suit look. Dashing, huh?

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Though navy suits work for both day and night, I think that they’re most attractive when they’re reflecting the moonlight.

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The details matter. Adding a pocket square and tie bar upgrades this already fantastic outfit substantially.

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It all boils down to fit. Some might argue that a slight tug on the middle button is a good thing, or a bad thing, but I personally like an ever so slight tug.

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Dark brown is my favorite color to complement a navy pant. Oh, by the way, don’t skimp on footwear when you’re in a suit.

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Make sure to add a classic leather strap watch to an outfit like this. I personally believe in a situation like this, it’s as important as the suit itself.

 Suit: J.Crew | Shirt: Brooks Brothers | Tie: Theory | Tie Bar: Thetiebar

Pocket Square: Joseph A Bank | Watch: Timex | Shoes: Allen Edmonds

I think there’s nothing wrong with being the guy who suits up at any chance he gets. I mean, there’s a clear reason for why the suit is in the highest echelon of menswear. It’s a symbol of put-togetherness, of class, and of masculinity. It doesn’t necessarily have to be part of your signature style, but I would always encourage people to take their suit for a spin every now and again. It feels good, and looks great.

As many have said before- take advantage of being a man. Wear a suit.

How to keep your collars from drooping

A couple months ago, my friend let me in on a little menswear secret of his. Well, for the greater good, I am going to let that secret out to the world. Sorry Christian.

One of the few things that I hate about semi-spread or point collars is their eager propensity to lay down flat. With low to medium quality shirts, you can start seeing the transformation pretty quickly. When you first buy the shirts, the collars will stand upright, looking sharp and pointed; exactly how I prefer my collars. However, after a few wears and some time in the closet, you’ll notice that the collars will start drooping, laying flat on your collar bones.

Well the good news is that you can now implement a small technique that can help your collars stay sharp and structured, just like when you bought them from the store.

The trick is this:  Close the top two buttons of your shirt before hanging them up in your closet. Simple right? Well sometimes the best solutions are pretty simple.

By closing the top two buttons of your dress shirt, you’re basically preserving the original collar shape, and stopping gravity from pulling your collars downward. This way, the “default stance” of your shirt, while hung in your closet, will be that of a shirt whose collars are upright. I’ve illustrated the technique below.

So this is how I used to hang up my dress shirts: carelessly.

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And now, this is how I hang up my shirts, thanks to my friend’s little secret.

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I’ve been putting this little technique to use in my closet for the past couple months, and I feel like it’s helping out substantially. No more droopy collars, no more desperate ironing. Now, I don’t think this is a technique that will fully repair an already drooped collar, but it is effective in preserving your collars for much longer periods of time.

It’s fairly easy to implement, and if anything, keeps your shirts from falling down from their hangers every now and again. Hope this helps you all as much as it has helped me, and oh yeah, Happy Friday.

Quick looks & pleasing everybody

I was tossing and turning in bed the other day, unable to fall sleep. In situations like this, most normal people would read a book, count sheep, or just idly lay in their beds till the inevitable sleep haze engulfed their conscience.

Well, I’m a bit weird, and probably not very normal. Thus, as a sleep remedy, I decided to go into my closet and start randomly taking pieces out, just to put them together in different combinations that I thought might work out. Also, I felt compelled to add ties to the mix as well.

It kind of worked, as I was so tired of putting on and taking off clothes that I eventually plopped on my bed and immediately fell asleep.

The outcome is below. And yes, I am actually wearing pants.

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The hunter’s look.

Jacket: Barbour | Vest: Barbour | Tie: Ovadia & Sons | Shirt: Brooks Brothers

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The formal look.

Jacket: Black Fleece | Pocket Square: Nordstrom | Shirt: Brooks Brothers | Tie Bar: Thetiebar | Tie: Theory

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The ultra-hyperextended neck look.

Jacket: John Varvatos Collection | Shirt: Black Fleece | Tie: Drake’s

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The cold day layering look.

Coat: Hugo Boss | Knitwear: Banana Republic | Shirt: Black Fleece | Tie: Theory

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The overcoat with suit look… or as I like to call it: blue steel look.

Coat: Banana Republic | Jacket: John Varvatos Collection | Shirt: Ben Sherman | Tie: Ben Sherman

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The Looper-ish look.

Jacket: Theory | Shirt: Armani Collezioni | Tie: Thetiebar

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The blue, blue, blue, and blue layer look.

Coat: Black Fleece | Jacket: Levi’s | Shirt: Brooks Brothers | Tie: Ovadia & Sons

My first thought was to put these photos on reddit, mainly because I was curious to see which outfits vibed well with the huge crowd over there, and which didn’t. I put the album up on reddit in the morning, walked away from the computer for about an hour, and then revisited its status shortly afterward.

Apparently the album became quite popular in that hour, ultimately hitting the first spot on /r/malefashionadvice, receiving thousands of up-votes, and getting more comments than I could read.

Turns out that pretty much every single look was simultaneously criticized and praised, showing how incredibly different peoples’ tastes are. Some people said my Barbour look was the best, while others thought it was the worst. Some argued that leather jackets should never go with ties, others said leather jackets looked best with ties. Let’s just say there was a lot of noise, and it taught me a valuable lesson.

The lesson is that you aren’t going to please everybody with your look, no matter how great it is. Sure there are rules that you should follow to look better overall (for example, getting things that are more fitted to your body), but even then, you just aren’t going to win everyone’s approval, as everyone’s tastes are different.

I put together 7 very different outfits, and for each outfit I got hundreds of different reactions. At first, I took each comment constructively, learning from what people had to say. Later on though, all I ended up really caring about was my own opinion, especially after seeing how much contradiction there was about what people thought was right and what people thought was wrong.

I think the best thing is for you to feel confident in the clothes that you wear, and present your unique style to the world expecting nothing in return. Sure, positive reinforcement may help you feel better, but ultimately, I think the most attractive thing about someone’s style is how they own their look. The swagger and confidence they have in wearing what they are wearing. The great thing is that no one can help you own your look, only you can.

Anyhow, sorry to go on a rant there, but I hope I was able to at least provide you with some ideas for outfits. Oh, and just kidding about the pants comment I made above. Commando all the way.

Ask me: wave #4 (closet purges, best fitting brands, etc.)

Hi folks! Time for another edition of “ask me.” First off, please continue asking away since I’m here to be your resource, and am more than happy to help out where I can. Second, really sorry if I’m sometimes a little late in answering your questions, life’s been a bit hectic recently, but I promise to get to every single question I can.

Here are a couple select questions that I’ve gotten that I thought I would share with everybody:

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I’ve started to understand style a lot better in the last six months or so. Unfortunately, all the clothes that I own don’t really fit the way I want them to, according to my newfound knowledge. Do you think I should just purge everything? – Steve

Great question Steve. I’ve had this dilemma in the past as well. There was a point where I looked at my closet and felt like only 1/10th of it was actually wearable anymore. This was due to two reasons. First, I had just lost about 15 pounds, and most of my clothes simply did not fit. Second, I thought it was finally time to do away with hoodies and baseball caps, since I wanted to have a bit more refined sense of style.

In these situations, I don’t think it’s a good idea to completely purge your wardrobe at once, as it takes a lot of time, effort and money to recoup from something like that. Instead, I would do a basic purge of items that you know you won’t wear anymore, and then start replacing one piece at a time. If you have a coat that you’re not a big fan of, go ahead and buy another one that you actually do like, and replace your old one. Keep going on like this once in a while, when you happen to be shopping, or have a little more disposable income, and in no time you’ll have a wardrobe you actually enjoy, and one you’ll cherish for the long haul. In the meantime, try and be creative! Mix your old clothes in with the new, and create new combinations of outfits. You might find that your old clothes actually look pretty great in the right context.

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Thanks for the blog man, it’s awesome! So my question is, do you think that dressing really too well as a man might give off the impression that you might be gay or metro even if you’re not? I want to dress better, but I don’t want to give ppl the wrong idea. – Brian


First off, be confident in your sexuality man! If you’re straight and you know it, that’s all that matters. Plus, who says that a straight man can’t look dapper too?

Now that being said, I think I know where you’re going with that question. There is certainly a point when someone can look too polished, too clean, and too meticulous with their clothing. This can potentially give off a sort of non-hetero impression to others, not that there is anything wrong with that. Also, going skinny as opposed to slim, wearing flamboyant colors and patterns, and showing a lot of skin can all contribute to you looking more “metro” as well.

For that reason, if this is very important to you, and you want to maintain a clean, good look while still having no one question your straightness, I’d stick to more classic colors and patterns, wear slim-fitting but not skin tight clothing, and exercise proper skin discretion (not wearing shorts & shirts that are too short). Also, if that’s not enough, maybe adapt a more rugged style, wearing more Barbour and Filson, and less Margiela and Rick Owens.

As long as you do those types of things and remain confident, you should be just fine. Also, nothing wrong with people asking if you’re gay because you wear nice clothes, since it might be more of a compliment to your style than anything else. We all know gay men can dress well.

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Can I ask what your go-to clothing companies are in terms of fit? I think I have a build similar to yours and I usually can’t find very well fitting clothes. – Young

Sure man, not a problem. In terms of pure fit, I do have some companies in mind, though I will say it’s not so cut and dry due to possible inconsistencies in fit even within the same brand. Also, I’ve made a larger habit of altering my clothes recently. I never used to do it before, but now that I know how effective and cost-efficient it is, I try to alter anything that I feel doesn’t fit well, regardless of brand.

I would say my best fitting brands would be the following, in price-point order:

1. Ben Sherman

2. Theory

3. Black Fleece

4. Band of Outsiders

5. Thom Browne

Hope that helps!

Alright fellas, keep asking away! And as always, stay dapper.

My leather favorites

I’m a huge fan of leather… and beef I guess, so maybe I’m a huge fan of cows.

Anyhow, I wanted to show you some of my leather items, and why I think that all of them are musts in a man’s wardrobe.

1. Leather Jacket

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Theory Leather Jacket

Want to feel badass? Get a leather jacket. Not only is it a classic piece that has always been in style, but it’s also one of the most standout pieces you can own. What I mean by “standout” is that if you get a nicely fitted leather jacket, it will get noticed, likely leading to loads of compliments. However, the great news is that you can still wear this bad boy quite regularly. You might get compliments on your red pants, but if you wear them 4 times a week, people may start to wonder if you have other pants. The same does NOT apply to your leather jacket, mainly because of its versatility & timelessness.

2. Leather Shoes

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Clarks Beeswax Desert Boots

A must, in every way. Black or brown in both dress and casual forms needed. I personally think that wearing leather shoes contributes the most to distinguishing boys from men. Sorry to offend grown men who still wear sneakers and athletic shoes everywhere, but in my life, I felt it was a big step to go from Asics to Johnston & Murphys. Plus, let’s be real, leather shoes look great.

3. Leather Belt

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Hugo Boss Leather Belt

Gotta have a leather belt. Other material can be used for casual belts, but leather is king here in my opinion. A must for dress belts, and highly recommended for casual belts as well.

4. Leather Watch Strap

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Hamilton Leather Watch Strap

I love both stainless steel watches and leather strapped watches, but recently, I’ve started to favor leather. There’s something so classy about leather strap watches, and they can be used both casually and formally. Black leather without contrast stitching is my ultimate preference, but as you can see in the picture, I love me some brown leather (with contrast stitching) as well.

In all, leather is the way to go with various items in your wardrobe. They’ll get better with age, hopefully last a long time, and provide you with that bit of badassery you’ve constantly longed for. Timeless, slick, and awesome.